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For Teens
Growing up can feel confusing, overwhelming, exciting, and sometimes very lonely. You have questions – lots of them. Tymso gives you simple, honest explanations so you don’t have to figure everything out by yourself.
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Body Changes
Your body is changing fast – height, weight, smells, skin, hair, periods, voice, and more. It can feel embarrassing, confusing, or like you’re “behind” or “ahead” of everyone else.
Tymso’s answers help you understand what’s happening and why, so it feels less scary and more normal.
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I feel tired more often – is that part of puberty?
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Yes. Growing quickly uses energy. Teens need more sleep than they think – usually 8-10 hours. -
Why does my skin feel oily sometimes and dry other times?
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Hormones cause oil glands to turn on and off in waves. Using gentle products helps keep your skin balanced. -
Is it normal for one side of my body to grow faster?
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Yes. Arms, legs, feet, and even facial features can grow unevenly for a while. Your body evens out over time. -
Why am I suddenly sweating more than before?
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Puberty activates sweat glands, especially under your arms and on your hands and feet. This is normal. Showering regularly and using deodorant helps. Sweat doesn’t mean something is wrong – it’s just your body growing. -
Why is my skin suddenly breaking out?
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Puberty causes hormones called androgens to increase, which makes your skin produce more oil. Oil + bacteria + clogged pores = acne.
It’s not because you did something wrong. Gentle skin care, avoiding harsh scrubbing, and washing your face twice a day will help. If acne becomes painful or very persistent, a doctor can offer options.
Emotions & Mental Health
Mood swings, anger, sadness, numbness, anxiety, overthinking – it’s a lot.
You’re not “too dramatic” or “weak” for feeling this way. Your brain is doing big development work behind the scenes.
Tymso helps you understand your feelings, recognize what’s normal, and see when it might be time to ask for extra support.
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How do I stop overthinking everything?
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Overthinking is often your brain trying to protect you. It looks for danger, embarrassment, or rejection even when none exist.
Try grounding: name 5 things you see, 4 things you can touch, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, 1 you can taste. If a thought doesn’t help or solve anything, it’s not worth keeping. -
Why do I feel sad or irritated for no reason?
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Your brain is going through major rewiring. Emotions become stronger, and your reaction system becomes more sensitive. That means sadness, irritation, or emptiness can show up without a clear reason.
It doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. The feeling will pass – talk, journal, take a break, or move your body to help regulate it.
Friendships & Social Life
Friendships can be amazing – and exhausting. People grow apart, new friends show up, group chats change, and sometimes you feel left out even when you’re “included.”
Tymso guides you through the good and bad parts of teen social life so you can protect your peace and stay yourself.
Crushes & Relationships
Liking someone, wondering if they like you back, dealing with mixed signals, jealousy, breakups, or pressure – it’s a lot for one heart to handle.
Tymso explains crushes, boundaries, communication, and what a healthy relationship really looks like, so you can protect yourself emotionally.
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How do I move on after a breakup?
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Give yourself time. Talk with someone who supports you. Do things that make you feel grounded – sleep, hobbies, and friends. Healing happens steadily. -
Why do relationships end even when they start well?
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People grow and change. Ending a relationship does not mean it was meaningless – it means the connection no longer fit. -
How do I set boundaries in a relationship?
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Say what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. Healthy people respect your limits. Boundaries protect both sides of a relationship. -
What if my friends don’t like the person I like?
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Listen to their concerns and think about whether there are real red flags. But remember, feelings are yours. It’s okay if your friends don’t share them. -
Why do crushes feel so overwhelming?
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Crushes activate strong emotions and imagination. The excitement plus uncertainty makes everything feel intense. It is normal and temporary.
Confidence & Self-Esteem
Some days you feel okay about yourself, and some days you can’t stand your reflection or your personality. You might compare yourself to friends, influencers, siblings, or classmates and feel like you’re never enough.
Tymso helps you understand where those thoughts come from, how to slowly build real confidence, and how to treat yourself with more kindness – even on tough days.
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Why do compliments make me uncomfortable?
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If you are used to doubting yourself, compliments may feel untrue. Instead of rejecting them, try saying, “Thank you.” Over time, your mind learns to accept the good things others see in you. -
How do I stay confident during big changes?
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Pause and notice what you can control – your effort, your attitude, and the next small step. Big changes feel smaller when you break them into pieces. -
How do I believe positive things about myself?
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Start with one small fact, like “I try hard” or “I am kind.” Repeat it consistently. Confidence grows from repeated truth, not from perfection. -
Why do I feel confident some days and not others?
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Confidence changes with sleep, stress, hormones, and what is happening around you. Off days do not mean something is wrong. They mean you are human. -
I don’t like how I look. Is that normal?
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Yes. Most teens feel unsure about their appearance at some point. Your body is still changing, and it takes time to feel settled. Focus on the things your body can do, not just how it looks.
School & Study Tips
School can feel exhausting: homework, tests, projects, teachers, group work, early mornings, and pressure to always do well.
Tymso offers simple strategies for focus, studying, time management, handling pressure, and dealing with school stress – without pretending you’re a robot.
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How do I handle a tough teacher?
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Stay respectful, ask clear questions, and seek help when needed. -
What if I’m scared to raise my hand in class?
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Lots of students feel the same. Try small steps – ask the teacher privately first. -
How can I stay focused when my mind drifts?
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Use short work bursts (10-15 minutes) and quick breaks. -
Why is homework harder than before?
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Your brain is growing, and school challenges increase. Breaking tasks into smaller steps helps. -
How do I stop procrastinating?
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Procrastination happens when a task feels too big or emotionally draining.
Shrink it:
– set a 5-minute timer
– break it into tiny steps
– reward yourself after small wins
Motivation comes after starting, not before.
Future & Careers
Everyone keeps asking, “What are you going to do after school?” – but you might have no idea, too many ideas, or feel stuck between what you want and what others expect.
Tymso helps you explore your strengths, interests, and options so your future feels like something you can build, not something you have to already know.
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How do I stay motivated for long-term goals?
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Break them into small steps and celebrate progress, not just the final result. Motivation grows when you see tiny wins add up. -
How can I figure out what I’m good at?
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Notice activities where you lose track of time or where people often ask for your help. Those hints reveal strengths you may not recognize. -
What if I want a career my family doesn’t expect?
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It’s your life path. You can listen to their concerns, explain why your choice matters to you, and take time to understand each other. It’s okay if it takes several conversations. -
How do I deal with fear of failure?
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Failure means you are trying something new. Every skill becomes easier with practice. Small failures often teach the most. -
Is it okay to change my mind about my future goals?
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Yes. Interests evolve as you grow. Changing direction is not failure – it is learning more about who you are.
Life Skills & Independence
Growing up isn’t just about school or social life – it’s also about real-world things: making decisions, communicating, dealing with parents, handling money, setting boundaries, and taking care of yourself.
Tymso gives you practical, step-by-step guidance so you can feel more capable and independent over time, not all at once.
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How do I get better at solving problems on my own?
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Try identifying the problem, listing possible solutions, and choosing one to test. The more you practice, the more capable you feel. -
How do I build healthy daily habits?
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Choose one habit at a time: sleep, water, movement, homework, or screen time boundaries. Small routines turn into strong habits. -
How do I handle conflict without making things worse?
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Listen first, speak calmly, and avoid blaming language. Most conflicts soften when both people feel heard. -
How can I stay motivated to finish tasks?
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Start with the easiest step. Finishing even one small part creates momentum for the rest. -
How do I speak up for myself politely?
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Use calm language like: “I understand, but here is what I think,” or “I’m not okay with that.” Being firm and respectful at the same time is a skill.
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