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Growing up can feel confusing, overwhelming, exciting, and sometimes very lonely. You have questions – lots of them. Tymso gives you simple, honest explanations so you don’t have to figure everything out by yourself.

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Body Changes

Your body is changing fast – height, weight, smells, skin, hair, periods, voice, and more. It can feel embarrassing, confusing, or like you’re “behind” or “ahead” of everyone else.

Tymso’s answers help you understand what’s happening and why, so it feels less scary and more normal.

  • My hair texture changed – is that normal?

    Answer:

    Yes. Hormones can make hair curlier, straighter, thicker, or oilier.

  • What causes new body odors?

    Answer:

    Sweat mixing with bacteria on your skin creates odor. Washing and clean clothes help.

  • Why do I get random aches in my legs or back?

    Answer:

    Bones and muscles stretch during growth. Light movement, stretching, and water help.

  • Are sudden growth spurts normal?

    Answer:

    Yes. You may grow several centimeters in a short time, then stop for a while.

  • Why does my voice crack even when I’m not talking loudly?

    Answer:

    Your voice box is adjusting to new size and shape. Cracks and squeaks are temporary.

Emotions & Mental Health

Mood swings, anger, sadness, numbness, anxiety, overthinking – it’s a lot.
You’re not “too dramatic” or “weak” for feeling this way. Your brain is doing big development work behind the scenes.

Tymso helps you understand your feelings, recognize what’s normal, and see when it might be time to ask for extra support.

  • How do I stop overthinking everything?

    Answer:

    Overthinking is often your brain trying to protect you. It looks for danger, embarrassment, or rejection even when none exist.

    Try grounding: name 5 things you see, 4 things you can touch, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, 1 you can taste. If a thought doesn’t help or solve anything, it’s not worth keeping.

  • Why do I feel sad or irritated for no reason?

    Answer:

    Your brain is going through major rewiring. Emotions become stronger, and your reaction system becomes more sensitive. That means sadness, irritation, or emptiness can show up without a clear reason.

    It doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. The feeling will pass – talk, journal, take a break, or move your body to help regulate it.

Friendships & Social Life

Friendships can be amazing – and exhausting. People grow apart, new friends show up, group chats change, and sometimes you feel left out even when you’re “included.”

Tymso guides you through the good and bad parts of teen social life so you can protect your peace and stay yourself.

  • What if my friend acts different around others?

    Answer:

    Many teens do this to fit in. It doesn’t always mean the friendship is weak.

  • How do I handle a friend who copies everything I do?

    Answer:

    Set gentle boundaries and share how you feel.

  • Is it okay to outgrow a friend?

    Answer:

    Yes. People change. Kindness and honesty help you move forward.

  • Why do I feel left out even when nothing is wrong?

    Answer:

    Your brain is sensitive to belonging. Sometimes feelings don’t match reality.

  • How do I tell a friend they hurt my feelings?

    Answer:

    Use “I feel…” instead of blaming. It keeps things calm.

Crushes & Relationships

Liking someone, wondering if they like you back, dealing with mixed signals, jealousy, breakups, or pressure – it’s a lot for one heart to handle.

Tymso explains crushes, boundaries, communication, and what a healthy relationship really looks like, so you can protect yourself emotionally.

  • How do I handle rejection without feeling terrible?

    Answer:

    Rejection does not mean something is wrong with you. It simply means the connection wasn’t the right fit. Give yourself time and kindness. Feelings fade faster when you don’t judge yourself.

  • What if I like someone but feel too nervous to talk to them?

    Answer:

    Start with small, low-pressure interactions like a “hi” or a question about something simple. Confidence builds gradually.

  • How do I know if someone likes me back?

    Answer:

    Look for consistent signs: they make time for you, start conversations, and treat you with respect. Guessing can be confusing, so asking directly – when you feel ready – gives the clearest answer.

  • What does a healthy teen relationship look like?

    Answer:

    Healthy relationships include:

    – respect
    – honesty
    – space
    – communication
    – boundaries
    – support

    You shouldn’t feel monitored, guilty, scared, or pressured. Real love feels safe, not stressful.

  • Why does having a crush hurt?

    Answer:

    Crushes activate the same parts of your brain that respond to excitement and anxiety. Your body releases dopamine (reward) and cortisol (stress) at the same time – that mix can feel like butterflies, panic, or stomach aches.

    You’re not weak – your brain is just reacting strongly.

Confidence & Self-Esteem

Some days you feel okay about yourself, and some days you can’t stand your reflection or your personality. You might compare yourself to friends, influencers, siblings, or classmates and feel like you’re never enough.

Tymso helps you understand where those thoughts come from, how to slowly build real confidence, and how to treat yourself with more kindness – even on tough days.

  • Why do compliments make me uncomfortable?

    Answer:

    If you are used to doubting yourself, compliments may feel untrue. Instead of rejecting them, try saying, “Thank you.” Over time, your mind learns to accept the good things others see in you.

  • How do I stay confident during big changes?

    Answer:

    Pause and notice what you can control – your effort, your attitude, and the next small step. Big changes feel smaller when you break them into pieces.

  • How do I believe positive things about myself?

    Answer:

    Start with one small fact, like “I try hard” or “I am kind.” Repeat it consistently. Confidence grows from repeated truth, not from perfection.

  • Why do I feel confident some days and not others?

    Answer:

    Confidence changes with sleep, stress, hormones, and what is happening around you. Off days do not mean something is wrong. They mean you are human.

  • I don’t like how I look. Is that normal?

    Answer:

    Yes. Most teens feel unsure about their appearance at some point. Your body is still changing, and it takes time to feel settled. Focus on the things your body can do, not just how it looks.

School & Study Tips

School can feel exhausting: homework, tests, projects, teachers, group work, early mornings, and pressure to always do well.

Tymso offers simple strategies for focus, studying, time management, handling pressure, and dealing with school stress – without pretending you’re a robot.

  • How do I study without stressing out?

    Answer:

    Short sessions, simple notes, and practice problems help more than long study marathons.

  • What if school feels boring?

    Answer:

    Your brain craves challenge. Small goals make tasks more meaningful.

  • How can I get better at group work?

    Answer:

    Share ideas calmly, listen well, and take small roles first.

  • What if my grades suddenly drop?

    Answer:

    This can happen during growth. Review routines and ask for support early.

  • Why am I forgetting things I just learned?

    Answer:

    Your brain is overloaded. Sleep helps your memory more than anything else.

Future & Careers

Everyone keeps asking, “What are you going to do after school?” – but you might have no idea, too many ideas, or feel stuck between what you want and what others expect.

Tymso helps you explore your strengths, interests, and options so your future feels like something you can build, not something you have to already know.

  • How do I choose a career path?

    Answer:

    Start with 3 questions:

    1. What am I naturally good at?
    2. What do I enjoy doing?
    3. What problems do I care about?

    Careers are built from strengths + interests – not pressure and guesswork.

  • What if I don’t know what I want to do with my life?

    Answer:

    Most teens – and adults – don’t know yet. Your future is built one interest at a time.
    Explore different things, pay attention to what energizes you, and give yourself permission to not have everything figured out.

Life Skills & Independence

Growing up isn’t just about school or social life – it’s also about real-world things: making decisions, communicating, dealing with parents, handling money, setting boundaries, and taking care of yourself.

Tymso gives you practical, step-by-step guidance so you can feel more capable and independent over time, not all at once.

  • How do I get better at solving problems on my own?

    Answer:

    Try identifying the problem, listing possible solutions, and choosing one to test. The more you practice, the more capable you feel.

  • How do I build healthy daily habits?

    Answer:

    Choose one habit at a time: sleep, water, movement, homework, or screen time boundaries. Small routines turn into strong habits.

  • How do I handle conflict without making things worse?

    Answer:

    Listen first, speak calmly, and avoid blaming language. Most conflicts soften when both people feel heard.

  • How can I stay motivated to finish tasks?

    Answer:

    Start with the easiest step. Finishing even one small part creates momentum for the rest.

  • How do I speak up for myself politely?

    Answer:

    Use calm language like: “I understand, but here is what I think,” or “I’m not okay with that.” Being firm and respectful at the same time is a skill.

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